This past winter was harsh! To give my strands a break, I
decided to do a protective style challenge for the next 60 days. This 60 day
challenge will give my strands a break from the stress of daily styling, and
manipulation damage. I expect to see some growth and length retention over the
next 60 days. What I did not expect was, that this challenge would be so
difficult. I’m currently experiencing curl withdrawal. After growing to love my
tightly coiled hair for the past 3 years, I now find it difficult to go long
periods of time without them.
Curl withdrawal is the
group of symptoms that occur
upon the abrupt discontinuation or decrease in curls, or kinky hair. Symptoms
may include, the overwhelming need to return to curly hair, the constant need
to check on new growth, and an empty feeling as the love for your temporary
style fades. If these symptoms sound familiar, don’t worry! You are not alone!
About 2 weeks into my
protective style challenge, I started having a difficult time convincing myself that
my curls are better off being tucked away. I continue my moisture routine while my hair is
protected. I also take this time to examine my hair, and measure any new
growth. I often find myself obsessing over my curls while they are tucked way
or straightened. Many experience curl withdrawal after straightening their
hair. After a quick tryst with the flat iron, many curly girls quickly return
to their natural curls after just a few days. To help get over curl withdrawal
here are a few tips:
1. Remember you wanted this – I can’t tell you how
many times I have spent money putting in a style, only to take it out a few
days later. When dealing with the overwhelming need to return to my curls, I
take a step back, take a deep breath, and remind my self that protective
styling is a great way to help me reach hair goals. I remind myself that curls
can fall victim to manipulation damage If I constantly install, and remove
styles with each mood swing. Healthy Hair is the ultimate goal
2.
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| Protective style with Color |
Jazz It up- Put in a protective style that
quickly got boring? Jazz it up! Add
color, or use hair chalk to add a funky color. Chop it up! Give your weave or
wig a trendy cut. Do something you wouldn’t dare do to your curls. This hair isn’t
your real hair, use it, abuse it, go nuts! Asymmetric rainbow colored bob?! Why not?! If your
temporary style became boring quick, do something crazy to liven it up. Then be
glad this look is only temporary.
3.
Don’t frown at your flattened curls- If you flat
ironed your hair, enjoy it! Flip it, swing it, bun it, do a length check, and enjoy the ride.
Your curls will return soon. And when they do, love them with all the
conditioner in the world.
4.
Remember you are not your hair- Over your current style? This is not the end
of the world. You are beautiful no matter what happens to be going on at the
top of your head. Collect your thoughts, and find a new style. Natural hair is
incredible versatile, enjoy the journey.
Have in a Protective Style? Dealing with this serious condition? Reach Out for support in the comments below!
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